That Line Again

When do you cross that line? What personal pieces are ok to reveal in your “professional” world?

I’m very bad at it; very little remains serious & professional in my life. I’m personal by nature. I once tried to have a strictly professional relationship with someone I met in a quasi-work environment… and then he discovered my blog. (But it’s way more fun this way!)

This weekend I pose the question is for a much stranger reason. Vintage opened up around the corner from our office and provided a much-needed, classy outlet for cocktails.

We were early adopters. Within weeks, all the ladies in my office were regulars. At this point, we’re on a first name basis with everyone that works there, and they kiss us hello & goodbye everyday. Because we’re there every day.


Last night, however, was the first night I showed up not in non-work attire. David, the owner, said hello and “Gee, Catherine, I’m used to see you a little more…umm… buttoned-up.”

Julie and I were on our way from a rock bar, so I fit the description — platinum shoes, ripped black jeans, big hair, red lipstick… and a sparkly top that reveals much.

“Yes, this isn’t exactly something I’d show my bosses.”

That night I dreamt about driving David’s Ferrari.

This morning I realized it was all over. Vintage is now a mirage of personal and professional, and they knew more than just one side. When it comes to work outlets, a certain level of anonymity is nice.

So… needless to say, I think it’s time for a break from the bar. Onto someplace new?